Oh Yes, Change, My Old Friend.


Comfort. Risk.
Both are enjoyable.
One we strive to create. One we try to minimize.
One can make us lazy, stagnant . One can make us active, stronger.

When did you last risk failure? I mean REALLY risk failure? When did you last risk change?

Ah, #paradigm, change. Two of my favorite words. 🙂 #Change can create fear, uncertainty, and #doubt.  It is an emotional experience. We all #experience it in our lives. Change happens every day, all around us. You’d be #surprised at what can happen in a year. I swear, by the moon & the stars in the….okay why am I singing #all4one in my head? 😂 ❤️

Anyways… In order to survive, we must adapt, and accept the changes. Change is inevitable, #growth is optional. I repeat, growth is optional. The first step towards getting #somewhere is to #decide that you are not going to stay where you are. You just make a decision, that’t it. No need to over complicate. Keep it on a ABC 1-2-3 level. We adults try and complicate things far too much.

During your #transformation , you might feel like everything is falling apart, but in reality everything is coming together for your highest good. Listen, I get it. I reaaaaally get it. Change is uncomfortable. I lived in a #prius for 6 months in 2017. But that’s another #story maybe for another time. When I write my book. 😉 When creating something new, you have to break down the old. BREAK IT DOWN! Always go with the change that #scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to #help you grow. You’re the only who really knows if the change scares the #SH*T out of you. What you really #fear is, the fear of loss. THE FEAR OF #LOSS IS SO POWERFUL. It will keep you in that mindset- “tomorrow”. Even “good” change brings about loss, the loss of something #familiar , the loss of relationships etc etc. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and get excited about what could go right.

There is always something positive to see in change. Even if it is extremely #difficult to see at the time. It IS there. Change brings new insights to be #gained and #personalgrowth to be experienced. Nothing stays the same forever. Viewing change as an #opportunity , a chance to #evolve and grow, lessens the fear. Fear is #extraordinarily contagious. When its time to make a change, the universe will make it so uncomfortable for you that you will have no choice but to leave. When you are not happy in a situation, don’t stay in denial and try to “make it work”. THE WORLD HAS BETTER PLANS FOR YOU, trust in the process and do your part by aligning yourself with the things you want. The rest will be history. You attract in accordance to the vibration you are in. You are emitting a certain frequency with every thought you think. Choose your thoughts wisely.

You also need to surround yourself around people who #embrace change as well. You can’t surround yourself with people who consistently fear change, THIS WILL YIELD POOR RESULTS- N0 CHANGE- NO GROWTH. Your subconscious mind will pickup on this. You have no control of your subconscious mind. Remember that. Everything changes eventually; That’s just the way life is, and sometimes you have no control over it.  Suddenly, people you thought would always be there disappear. People die, they move away, they grow up and grow apart. There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit in your life, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT THEM TO. If you hear people from your past speak of you, keep in mind they are speaking about a person they do not know anymore. They are speaking on old paradigms. That’s on them, not you. When you make a true-blooded DECISION to change your whole life for the better, people start talking… They will say you are different and taking life ‘too seriously’. They will sh*t on you and who you have become while telling others about the old you… forget them. Forget what they are saying and what they are thinking. You are different now. You can give a person knowledge,but you can’t make them think.

Some people want to remain fools, only because the TRUTH requires CHANGE.- so much yes!!!!

After all, we become what we think about, we also become who we give our #energy to, and surround ourselves with. Find people who will help you embrace change. Being pushed to evolve and get out of your comfort zone so you can live and experience your true greatness. Great things never came from comfort zones. OMG im fired up right now. I just did 30 push ups. I gotta type that in all caps. GREAT THINGS N-E-V-E-R CAME FROM #COMFORTZONES wooooooooooooooo baby! we on fire today!

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But, nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you do not belong.

This has #resonated #deep with me. We cannot become what we want, BY REMAINING WHAT WE ARE! I read this the other day…

“The 3 C’s in life: Choice, Chance, Change.” You must make the choice, to take the chance, if you want anything in life to change. We are the only ones who can change our lives.

One of the hardest things to do in life is jump outside of your comfort zone. You WILL grow by doing so. It’s just a matter of time. It is inevitable. Staying in your comfort zone will only lead to regret in the future. You can’t expect great things to happen for your life if your standing in the same spot year after year! I DARE YOU, I EFFING DARE YOU!… to write down 3 things in your life your uncomfortable doing and choose one of them and just DO IT for a week or two. At first you may get laughed at, you may feel embarrassed, you may feel out of place, weird, judged……eventually you will feel growth and you will feel 10x better than you did before. Nobody else can do it for us.

Don’t change so people will like you. Just be yourself and the right people will love you.

NEVER CHANGE TO BE ACCEPTED BY OTHERS. Stay weird. Welcome change. Embrace change. Change is all around us. Change is the only constant in the Universe! That’s the way uh huh uh huh I like it uh huh uh huh! 🙂 Speaking of change, I need an oil change. imma get on that asap. 😂

So what are you going to change today? Get in contact with me, id love to hear what your going to change. If you need help, im always here to listen & help 🙂

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” – Obama

“If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”- Mary Engelbreit

“Nothing is forever except change.” – Buddha

Peace! ❤️




How do I live?

How do I want to live?


Changing my paradigm is the only way to bridge the gap between how I’m currently living and how I want to live.



I need to reevaluate what believe and think.

Change is inevitable, it’s never going to stop

“Most people tip toe through life, hoping to make it safely to death”- NOOOOOO way!!!!! I don’t want this. F that noise!
“In times of change, the learners will inherit the earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that NO LONGER EXISTS”
My mind has brought me everything I have. My relationships, my work, my philosophy of life. My thoughts dictate my actions, and my actions dictate who I am, what I do & say. What I succeed & fail at. It all starts with a thought.☁
“Whatever the mind can conceive, and believe, it can achieve. No matter how many times you’ve failed in the past”
The more I study me, the more I’m going to find that my belief system is based on my evaluation of something. The more I evaluate myself, the more I will believe in myself.
“If I want to be free, I gotta be me, not the me you think I should be, my wife thinks I should be, my kids think I should be, but ME!, and I have to find out who me is.”
I need to learn to adapt to the change that’s taking place. 
Thinking is when I take a power that’s flowing through my consciousness, that’s flows to, and through me, and I originate thoughts, put the thoughts together, and create an idea.
If I can create an idea in my mind, I can hold it in my hand.
“The illiterate of the 21st century are not going to be the people who can’t read or write, they’re going to be the people who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.”- POWERFUL

We are all controlled by paradigms. 

Continue reading “PARADIGM SHIFT”

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