Notes from Session with Dr. Wayne 7-9-2020: Let Your Gift Make Room for You

  • Don’t let anybody cause you to come from outside yourself
  • Pivot with principles, don’t react with emotion
  • Remember Habit 4: Think Win-Win
  • Protect and preserve what you found.
  • Trust your own heart, not what you inherited
  • Protect and preserve those who love, nourish, and edify me the most
  • Let go of all unnecessary stress that does not serve you
  • Maybe the old rules don’t apply anymore. Recognize who and what remain the priority
  • If I don’t move poverty out of the way, there’s no room for growth
  • People may say, “Don’t forget where you came from”… I say “Don’t forget where you’re going”
  • If you want to be successful, learn how to accommodate change and do it faster
  • Be so busy chasing tomorrow you ain’t got time to respond to yesterday
  • People may know the facts of your life, but not the story of your life [Dr. Wayne’s personal experiences with friends]
  • Past stories – boring, incriminating, or sad
  • People return to who you were then because they’re not comfortable with who you are now
  • I can love you above the offense, but I lower your priority on my list
  • Act in alignment with your vision board
  • Delete the nonessentials
  • I am so busy pursuing that which feeds me that I don’t have time for that which drains me
  • [Song Reference] – Barry White I Got So Much to Give
  • What can facilitate healing – a change in nutrition or diet [both literally and metaphorically]
  • How do I recover from a lifetime of injury? By nourishing myself differently
  • Lead, love, and live from something other than your wound – from your wisdom
  • The power of humor is the equivalent of a plant based diet
  • When everyone insists that you play checkers, play chess to win the day
  • You know you’re doing something when you get paid and rewarded for being yourself
  • Hold on to your gift and let go of your curse
  • Your gift will make room for you to be who you actually are and bring you before great people. To be who God ordained you to be. In this case, Kris and I are each others’ gift
  • Not just so you can resolve, but so can be restored and then promoted
  • Yesterday can’t talk to tomorrow. A cassette player can’t tell my phone how to play music
  • Don’t let your past block a better idea
  • You represent a psychological, emotional, and spiritual innovation
  • Deal with people from the center and not the margins
  • References in popular culture:
  • Hamilton – a manual on how to make your vision a reality
  • What will happen when your family of origin leaves the stage
  • Examples: Michael Jackson, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Prince
  • Focus on what you need to do to nourish yourself
  • You can spend your time complaining about a bad meal, or you can enjoy a good one
  • Whatever your Hamilton is, put that on your vision board and work toward that with all deliberate speed
  • I don’t have the bandwidth for the blight or the burden or the BS
  • Remember that God does not respond uniformly to my calamity, sometimes he waits to see how I will respond
  • RRP – Recovery, Restoration, Promotion

Author: Kris

Hi my name is Kris, and I am addicted to personal development, and the word DETERMINATION! :) and BRENÉ BROWN!!! And BRIAN JOHNSON!!! Aaaaaaaand WOOOO!!!! 142.

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